Baby gay in need of help

I somewhat recently got out a a very very long relationship with a man. I’ve always known I’ve liked women and came out to him about it about 5 years ago. Well we broke up awhile ago and have been crushing on this girl from my job

he knew I had a thing for her and even encouraged me to try and flirt with her lol.

But I’m very new to this.

I want to ask for her Snapchat but I’ve never really had a conversation with her that wasn’t work related and I don’t work on the same shift as her anymore. Im afraid she’ll think I’m weird. I often also get that I don’t “look gay” (I’m pretty feminine)

Im also in a weird “situation ship” with a girl on my actual shift who is basically playing me lol.

I know this is very messy but I haven’t been single in a long time and have no idea what I’m doing. Please help!!!!

*Edit*

The situationship kinda started cause she found out I liked girls as well and never got to experience it because I got with my ex my freshman year in high school.

She told me she wanted to be my first girl and I always thought she was cute so we started meeting after work and I started to catch feelings even though she made it clear we can’t go any farther relationship wise.

Shes like a weird drug to me and I can’t get enough but I think it’s just because she’s my first girl.

I’ve liked the girl from the other shift for a year. Literally my first day I saw her and I was in shock because everything I always said I wanted in a girl was right in front of me. I couldn’t talk to her about anything but work because I got nervous and I’m November they moved me to the night shift so I don’t get any chances to talk to her.

I did however run into her best friend and asked her if I should ask her for her snap because I don’t want her to think I’m weird and she kinda just told me to go for it lol.

I won’t see her again for three days so I’ll try to update if I ever woman up.