Is this normal?

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Is it normal to get into disagreements with your partner and not be able to come to a resolution but the fact that you cannot see eye to eye on something makes the thought of them unbearable? (They didn’t do anything morally wrong)

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It depends on what the actual issue is.  Not agreeing on how the dishwasher is loaded or you don't like the way he makes the bed is one thing but if it's something like one of you joined the KKK or decided science wasn't real the relationship would be over.

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Sometimes it’s about agreeing to disagree and truly let it go. Topic depending of course.

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It depends on what. My husband and I jokingly bitter about how amazing I think avocado is but he thinks it’s garbage. We’ll disagree on what we want for dinner, what we want to watch and sometimes we can’t agree so we go watch different stuff. But if you’re talking about something important like fundamental stuff and disagreeing then that would be a bigger issue to me. I’m really passionate about protecting womens rights and if my husband couldn’t agree with me on that he’d be out the door. On his side, he’s really anti religion due to some childhood trauma and if I tried convincing him that religion was great blah blah he would not agree and it would be a major major issue for him.

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I need more context lol some disagreements are a lot more important than others. Like how you spend your money or how you parent. Etc.

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An example would help. You’re certainly allowed to have your feelings, but remember that the goal of communicating about an issue is always to resolve it. It’s not about who is right and who is wrong. Just how quickly you can resolve it and come back to loving one another. If you don’t feel like your issues are being resolved or heard, then there needs to be more communication about it. Or the two of you have to agree to disagree and move on with your lives. It sounds like you are holding resentment when he is not agreeing with you. Just remember that you are individuals who are both allowed to have your own opinions and therefore there will always be disagreements. If you can’t even stand the thought of him after a disagreement, to me that signals a red flag for the relationship in general. It is contempt and it’s never healthy for a relationship. Are you disagreeing about core values? If so, that could be the cause of this resentment and contempt. If your core values don’t match up, you may not be with the right person.

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I personally have never disagreed on anything like that with my husband.

Is this normal?

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