Getting blamed at

So my husband and I have been living together for 1 year and a half and we have a 1 year old and it just seems like im getting blame at for everything. Hes the one SAHD and im the one working just how we agreed bc I was already making more than him and I love my job and he hated his. So thing is i get home from work and all i do is cook and try to spend time with my baby , i get home close to 5pm make dinner, by 6 im feeding the baby/play . She goes down to sleep by 9pm and after 9 im cleaning the kitchen, washing bottles, sanitizing etc… take a shower and end up going to sleep by 11pm to wake up at 5am and start all over and its just been draining , as soon as baby goes down to sleep he just plays on his computer and sometimes cleans the toys in the living room. Well yesterday he found a baby sock in the living room where all baby toys goes and he blamed me, if theres a toy missing he blames me because i just “throw it” wherever when I clean. If a baby shoe is in the toy box he blames me. Like i wash the dishes and i guess i been putting the babys plate at the very bottom so he said its very hard for him to take it out and he said why was I doing that and I was like dude I just wash the dishes i didnt know that was even an issue. Like i just feel hes blaming me for everything but then later on he talks to me like nothing happened and for example whenever i see something wrong or i have to clean his mess i don’t say a thing, i just clean it and move on. I just feel everything that i do annoys him . Like if i was the one staying home i would have time to clean and i guess be more organized , have dinner ready for him but thats not even an option right now