BABY DADDY PROBLEMS??

Hi,

So long story short I’m 23, he’s 26.

We have an almost 2y old together. We are together. But the situation is hard rn.

He just got a house and wants me to move in with him however I just started an amazing job with great benefits so I haven’t yet because the drive would be about 40mins so I’m still living with my mom as the driver is only 15mins. She watches our child while we work. I give her money every week.

My mother and stepdad absolutely hate my boyfriend. He has a set schedule for the year and works 12hr shifts. They complain and say he needs to take days off and take our child more (he always takes her on his days off) and that their lives don’t revolve around our schedules. I don’t know what to do. I feel like I can’t win. My daughter has bad anxiety so she screams hysterically if she’s around strangers and I leave her anywheres. She’s only comfortable with my mom. so I haven’t tried day care yet.