weird or ?

i think i could just be reading to far into this but idk. so i recently moved in with my husband and his family for a short period of time. he’s military and we’re waiting on his orders. but i do want to make it clear that the whole time i’ve been here i help around the house, clean up after myself, and pay for groceries. anyways his mom and pretty much whole family has always been weird towards me but that’s a whole other story to get into. we started dating really young like 14-15 and even after the years they’ve never been accepting. his mom threw a fit when we told her we were getting married. always obsessed over the fact she didn’t want us to have kids anytime soon. i definitely feel like his mom and sisters have some weird emotional incest type attachment with him. anyways this situation happened because i usually let him take the car to work but sometimes if i have to do stuff i’ll drop him off and pick him up in the morning (he works over night) so for some reason his mom is always like “no ILL pick him up” when she literally has to be at work at 6 and he gets done at 5 (it’s about a 45 min commute) so he would have to take her car drop her off at work after she picks him up then come and get her when she’s done (she also makes about a 30 min commute) n im just like that’s literally so pointless when i have no problem just waking up early to pick him up. but she makes it a weird thing, will blow his phone up at 3am to make sure i’m still getting up to pick him up instead of just coming in the room to ask me, will literally get up and get ready to get him anyways even though i’m literally getting ready “just in case i wasn’t getting up” or she’ll always say something like “are you sure you’re okay to get him” like.. i’ve literally never had a problem before.. and today she made some weird comment about am i sure i have enough gas or money for gas since i’m unemployed.. as if i don’t have savings like it just seems demeaning or condescending and it’s bothering me but he doesn’t see the problem