Need to vent

Carolina

I am 35 weeks pregnant. My husband family show literally no interest in our 2 year old son and worst with this pregnancy. They never ask how its going or anything. Didnt send a gift or ask if we needed something they dont talk about it. My husband asked my MIL to come to help us because we are overseas and no help around and there is a big possibility that I will have a c section. She is not coming because she says “she cant”. I don’t have family thats why we rely on her. Even if you don’t like your DIL as a boys mum I cant imagine leaving my son with so much pressure. To take care of his wife after surgery + newborn + 2 year old kid + working as he is the main income of the house. I really cant understand why you would behave like this with your own son