Newly Single at 30, ??s

Hey ladies,

Anyone get out of a long term relationship at 30?! So my dilemma. Snapchat. Apparently guys can tell I'm separating from my baby daddy of 11 years. It's weird they are coming out of the woodwork from jobs, high school, exes etc. Now what is weird. Even the ones who are clearly in relationships (per social media) BLOWING me up. Is this the new norm dating in your 30s? Like are these men insane and is every married man cheating? I have an extremely faithful ex, absolutely no worries about him ever straying. (He's a little older than I am so social isn't like something he is super into anyways) but I can't even, anyone have similar experiences? I don't even know where to meet guys, I just want to have fun. But I also was brainwashed by my mom "no one buys the cow when they get the milk for free " so I know I'm not sending out mistress vibes I'm just confused everyday shocked. I've never slept around, idk if with only fans etc. Are men just out here acting like fools? Lol thank you for my rant and also confusion