Stressed

Hey ladies,

So my dad has recently moved in with me without asking just made himself at home he has no where to go since his breakup he complains about everything and wants me to constantly clean and cook dinner and run errands for him I do this because I am scared of upsetting him he won't let me smoke cigarettes at my own home or have friends over to have a drink.

We have not had the best relationship through the years as he never rais3d us my mother did and he was goodness know where in

but I still love him after everything in the past I don't want him at my place anymore I get home from work and I am tired I work with youth and I get home and just want to relax, he wants to have his stupid girlfriend at my house even though we dont get along and iv told him i dont want her there he told me to get over it dad believes a women should be kept busy I have to watch what I say to him so he doesn't become upset with me and all my supporting family live in another state I have 9 months until my lease ends and iv decided im moving back I was happy and content here but his forced me to come to this decision

I can't tell him of my plans because he will carry on I just have no idea what to do my work mates tell me to sit down and tell him to leave but im so scared to do that im caught between a rock and hard place

I know its probably pointless to ask for advice but I don't know what to do and I'm so stressed and worried about it