PLEASE REASSURE ME

Julia

Please don’t judge me - I have a really bad fear of pregnancy (tokophobia) so I obsessively take tests. Obviously this looks negative, but my brain saw the faintest line I couldn’t get with my camera but my friend said it’s an evaporation line and took this contrast photo. Whenever I have sex with my partner, we use condoms and I take my pill everyday. I also test the condoms with water at the end. I’m very paranoid and avoid pregnancy like a crazy person. Please just reassure me. I also took a digital one this morning. I know this is probably obnoxious and irrational but yeah…

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Me

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Negative. Put those Epsom salt in the bath and relax girl!

Je

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There's nothing there. Its negative.

ka

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maybe you shouldn’t be having vaginal sex then??????? if you’re that scared then stick to anal or another type of sex

Sh

Shelby • Jun 7, 2022
having sex shouldn’t equal having a baby….. she can’g help that pre-cum will knock her up

ka

kaymay • Jun 6, 2022
well i’m just saying… avoiding sex or not you’re still scared. so that’s not much of a solution now is it? maybe get therapy for your fear.

Ju

Julia • Jun 5, 2022
…seriously…? I can’t - Okay. I have an irrational fear of pregnancy. Avoiding sex with my fiancé whom I love is only going to make the fear worse. I also can’t do anal because I have a tight ass hole and I have chronic IBS.

Ra

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Consider an IUD. It’s way more effective than the pill.

Ra

Rashida • Jun 7, 2022
That’s great! I’m glad you found something that works for you.

Ju

Julia • Jun 6, 2022
I’m also taking my pill continuously so I don’t get a period. I also don’t ovulate on this pill because it’s a combo pill.

Ju

Julia • Jun 6, 2022
I tried that. Hated it.

El

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you’re good, girl. just make sure you’re taking your pill at the same time every day 🙂 i totally understand the fear tho. i’m the same way, even though i also am on the iud and use condoms with my partner !

Ju

Julia • Jun 6, 2022
Yes I take it every single day. Not at the exact same time (in a 2 hr window usually) but I NEVER MISS IT.

Ju

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Ju

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I can see it but if you take birth control and use condoms then it's more than likely an evaporation line or an indent. Some of these are bad for those