My husband doesnt seem to care anymore

Im on my third and last pregnancy

My kids are 4 and 2 and I have been extremely tired apart from having thyroid issues and very low energy. My husband does very well in his business and we do have help. We don’t have family close by or anyone really at all.

My husband since the beginning of my pregnancy he started to plan a trip with his father and the second week with his friends .. I told him it was a bad idea because the time of the trip I would be very much pregnant and with 4 weeks left of my due date.. either way he didn’t seem to care or cancel.

The weekend before my father in law arrived And he had a nasty cough which he didn’t care to put a mask on or not come to the house he was clearly sick and they where leaving soon for their trip and I ask my husband please don’t bring your dad around like that because my kids will get sick and I’m pregnant and don’t want to get sick.. he didn’t care at all (if it was my family it would have been so different )

The day before he was going to leave I had an ultrasound and appointment with my ob

My doctor said I had low amniotic fluid and that I needed to come back that same week

My husband didn’t care and left anyway

By Tuesday I was already so sick with a horrible cough by Wednesday my daughter had a horrible fever and tested positive for influenza

I had to take care of my daughter with horrible fevers and not wanting to eat anything it was a horrible experience. When I returned to my ultrasound that same week my amniotic fluid was lower and my ob said if on Monday wasn’t better Then I would be admitted to the hospital

I called my husband to tell him about my daughter testing positive for influenza and then about how worry i was because I have never had any issues in my previous pregnancies and that the ultrasound was bad. He didn’t came home right away he waited two more days to come home And then a day later we had another ultrasound which wasn’t great either and we had to have another two more on that week but he was only waiting to hear the doctor say everything is fine you can leave again 😣 he wanted so bad to leave again

I have never felt so alone in my fucking life

My family was so upset to find out he planned a vacation so close to my last weeks of pregnancy

He had to cancel everything because the ultrasounds where not great and doctor thought I was going into preterm labor because I was already dilating and with a horrible cough for days

But he still didn’t feel bad for leaving the first week

My doctor put me on bed rest after all of this and now my amniotic fluid seems stable not higher but not low enough for a C-section or induction

I just can’t believe he treated me like this

I have been with him when everything was so bad for him I just can’t understand how he just doesn’t care