No sex w/ fiancé for 17 months!!!!

Laney

Y’all. I don’t think I can do this anymore. I have been with my significant other for almost 3 years, we are engaged. We have not had any type of sex for 17 months. 17/34 months we have not touched in an intimate way. We have talked in circles about it and the responses are the same. He ignores me, he isn’t in the mood, he is tired, he doesn’t feel good, etc. like I feel like the ugliest most unattractive woman on earth. And keep in mind, we are young. We are 24 years old. The beginning of our relationship was nonstop sex. I’m starting to think we maybe jumped the gun a bit too quick. I need some advice or words of encouragement. Idk, something!