BF advice needed…

Hi everyone!

I’m 21 years old and in my first very serious relationship :) we have been together for about a year and a half and have lived together for a full year. I was just hoping to see how other people view some of my concerns…

My boyfriend is 25 and has been in multiple serious relationships and had many many one night stands or little flings (15 to be precise… yes he counted… yes he told me I was number 16…). This already makes me insecure as I feel as though I’m less experienced. However, I’m noticing more and more about how often he speaks of his exes. He brings them up constantly! He is always bringing them up in conversations (I.e. “my ex did the same thing… my ex’s friend did so and so…”). He will also compare me to them constantly… for example if I make a joke about him being spoiled by his parents he will say something along the lines of “okay, Emily” because that was a joke she often made. I feel like I’m constantly being excluded from inside jokes and he doesn’t seem fully over these girls since they always seem to be at the front of his mind. I was wondering if anyone else has experienced this or what other people think. Am I being dramatic?

Thanks ladies xoxoxo