So last night I got pretty drunk and ended up hooking up with a guy. He seemed very nice and we got along. While we were hooking up I honestly just got to the point where I wanted to be done but I kept going for him. When I was flipped over on my stomach he all of a sudden stuck it in my other hole. It completely caught me off guard and it hurt so bad. I promised myself I would never do anal again after a bad experience. I yelled at him “no no no” and he backed out and proceeded to say “im sorry I thought that’s where things were going” there’s no way it was an accident. I did not once consent to that. He gave me a second and then I let him continue normally. He never ended up finishing. Is this considered sexual assault? I just feel so violated and it’s the next day and I am in a lot of pain.

On top of that, we used a condom. And I don’t know when, but it must have came off because today, I found it IN me. I’m so upset and worried as I am not on birth control currently. I’m just so worried about everything. This is the last thing I need right now