Who will you have in your Delivery Room?

I need advice! I am conflicted! I love my mom but she is obsessed with my pregnancy! (this is her first Grandbaby) she is under the impression that she will be in the delivery room while I’m in labor and delivery, at first I just brushed it off and thought maybe it would be nice to have her there, now I have had a change of heart! how do I let her down gently without breaking her heart or feeling the need to explain myself! Like I said I love my mom but she is a very good manipulator and I’m worried she will either shame me for not letting her be there or worse being so hurt that she gives me the cold shoulder for a very long time😔

Mamas please help!

I don’t know what to do, I feel awful!