So, let me start by saying I have the best husband ever. He loves me and my son and I’m very lucky to have him.

The last few months I’ve noticed my husband not wanting to be intimate anymore. I’m about to hit my third trimester, so I have gotten much bigger. I can’t help but think that he’s just not attracted to me right now, which is really hard.

We talk about it a lot and he always uses excuses like I’m tired, you’ve been in pain, you went to bed early, etc. Last night for Father’s Day I took a long bath, shaved and put lotion on everything (which takes a lot of effort while pregnant) and put on some nice pajamas to see if I could get him interested. He completely shut me down and I basically cried myself to sleep.

Ladies, what am I doing wrong? This is not our first baby so he doesn’t think he’s going to “poke the baby” or anything. He just genuinely doesn’t want to touch me. I already feel so gross right now and he’s making me feel worse. Just want to feel sexy and wanted again.