Toddler and newborn?

So how do you mommas do it?? How do you leave your toddler at home while going to give birth?? I get so emotional thinking about leaving my toddler. We have never been apart. The only one who I truly trust is dad because he knows his schedule. I’m at the point where dad can stay home with my toddler and they can pick me up after I give birth lol 😭 no but seriously I hope hospital stay is short