HELP! Inlaws, sex life, workaholic
Since I got pregnant I felt like I was on my own. My husband works from home but he works 15hrs a day. He drove me to my appts and make sure the fridge is full of food. I never really experience having to cuddle with him and feel secured as far as emotions. My family is on the other side of the country so when I did give birth it was my mother in law who had helped us for 6weeks while husband was working and it was the most awful times in my life as my MIL did not helped me at all. I felt judge on how I parent despite of doing my best healing from a csection and pumping every hour for a month. I cooked my own food and climb the stairs after my 1st week of operation.
The last time I had sex with my husband was 1 year and half ago. We never had sex when we got pregnant until now that babe is 7 months old. Because we were afraid of miscarriages as we had previous 2 losses before. And can’t really enjoy sex after giving birth.
I felt I developed so much resentments towards my MIL and husband. I don’t feel connected to my husband anymore. We don’t sleep in the same room since I gave birth because babe needs to be held all the time and hubby needs to sleep to work. (The audacity)
I did control myself and kept all the emotions against my mother in law when she was here. But now she is coming again after 6months since her last visit.
Please help. I’m talking to a therapist but she seemed no help.
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