When I have sex I feel it in my butthole?

Question

Idk if it’s just me but I barely just lost my virginity a few months ago but for some reason when he puts it in I can feel something in my butthole like if I have to poop but I don’t have to poop I can’t explain it and also how can I make sex feel good? Bc to me it feels like just something inside my vagina idk if I feel any pleasure I’d like to know how to make my experience more pleasurable

Answer

So the rectum and vagina are parallel to one another. A penis inserted into a vagina expands the walls of the vagina into the rectum. So you will feel some pressure on your rectum and anus from this. It’s normal. 
Most women don’t get off from penetration alone. To help make it feel good here’s some different things to try:
-Lots of foreplay
-Try orgasming before the penis is inserted
- add clitoral stimulation while the penis is inserted

Answer

There are lot of reasons why ones body/vulva/vagina can become ‘numb’ and not feel a lot of sensation. I’d recommend reading some books about female sexuality (come as you are by Emily Nagoski is great) and practice mindfulness/awareness in your body. Focusing on your sensation and tuning into your body. You can do this while resting/siting and focusing on your body as a whole. You could also start a self pleasure practice just exploring your body and sensations and what you like best. Also having a caring partner you trust helps a lot!

When I have sex I feel it in my butthole?

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