Taking husband back after emotional affair
My husband made the choice of a emotional 2 month affair......and I am choosing to work on my marriage..we learned a lot more about eachother and realized alot about eachother ....the talks have been hurtful but truthful and also reassuring and educational. Getting to know eachother and learning our wants and needs all over again....I feel like this Had to happen because we got comfortable to the point we stop supporting eachother emotionally and physically. It took this for us to see a lot that we weren't doing for eachother anymore like we use too. And stuff we weren't doing for eachother that the both of us wanted and needed. Also now learning eachother love languages and realize we makes us both happy. Now I'm going through the process of getting through the affair and trusting him again...but he has made it so easy for me! Though it's not all roses. I blew some hits but he's taking it and because of that the healing is not fast but easier and I didn't resort to hurting him because I was hurting which does nothing but make a situation worse. Like I said it's not all roses we have our bumpy days because of this but it's more I'll say Okay days then bad days...topped with some great days. He knows I have depression and anxiety so he don't want me to go into a deep depression
And neither. even though I have my antidepressants and therapy to also help me....I just remembered the experience with my daughter father and I promise I won't go back down that road again...it was way much more painful then this and alot more shit happened. But anywho I'm (we're) just hoping when the dusk settles we can hold on to this improvement in our marriage that we've had. And not to forget to love and honor eachother! We even started a love contract, so that once a month we come together and talk to eachother and be as honest and be able to take the truth.... because that's what's been helping us lately. Honesty and communication. We talk about what we do and don't want from each other and we discuss it together and come to a resolution and whatever on that contract we abide by. We watch a show called couples retreat so that's where we got the idea. But I'm hoping for the best and pray I'm making the right decision.
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