Did I do something wrong ..š©
So my boyfriend & I had a small argument but for me itās deeper. I am currently 22 weeks pregnant with our son.
My boyfriend was on his phone watching videos & I walk into the living room ready to sweep & clean up some things on the floor. He seeās me ready to sweep & he continues to watch his videos..I start sweeping & as Iām about to finish I clean under his legs etc. when Iām done he says. āI couldāve helped u withh that u know..I donāt like when u bend & ur back hurtsā I said ā I just finished .. but ur busy watching videosā then I left to take out recycling & the trash.. he picks up some stuff then ask if it goes to recycling I told him it goes in the trash then he seeās Iām about to get ready to take out the trash & recycling.. he walks to sit down. Then as Iām outside doing it all he simply said āwhy donāt u ask for helpā I told him āI shouldnāt ask for help if u see Iām cleaning u can at least help with the trash or something..ā then he snaps at me & start yelling saying everything is a issue with him & that I should just ask since when he lived with his mother she had to ask him too. I told him āokay well Iām not her & itās different here.. plus Iām sure ur mother wished u wouldāve helped her without her asking all the time.. i just wish I didnāt have to ask u for help. Since I have to do ur dishes & all while u sit down..ā then he said snapped at me & said āu know what Iām out ur life & my mothers!! Ur so extra! U made it more than what it is! Iām done ā then I told him āall I wanted was for me not having to ask.. Iām not arguing with u why are u yelling ā then he started saying I am playing withh him mentally etc. which makes no sense. He always say stuff that his mind tells him when heās angry . I told him since heās out our life & he is snapping at me every time that I just canāt with him no more.. I donāt want this for me. Then he said āyea I bet this what u fckn want! U would be ok without me huh! Enjoy ur fckn life!ā & that showed me a lot .. from something so small & he blamed me for it.. am I wrong for choosing to end it after he said that? I was calm the entire time while he snapped at me & spoke to me horrible
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