What does this mean? Updated

On Thursday my husband was more quiet and less affectionate than normal. I gave him a hug and asked if everything was ok. He was kind of dry with his hug and didn't say anything. Friday morning he was still in a funky mood. I was on the couch on my phone checking messages and social media. He said something snarky and then left the house. He sent this text.

He then stated he was stressed about finances and was mad that I wasn't. Mind you he said absolutely NOTHING to me about figuring out money. He also accused me of looking at men through the window. He then unleashed a whole list of things he's mad about. Including me making a face while talking about money later (Which I did). I know I need to work on my faces because he hates it. It's a bad habit I have. He brought up separation and counseling as well (I don't think he's serious about counseling because he only mentioned it to say that a counselor would agree with him). I'm confused. He typically does hold things in and then unleash a billion things at random. But this time I'm not backing down because I'm tired of the accusations and random unleashing. We haven't been on good terms since Friday. Which is a long time for us because we usually make up quickly. We have a transparent marriage as well in that we have access to each other's phones, passwords, etc. So I don't believe he's cheating and Im not cheating. I don't stare at other men and I don't close out of apps when he walks in as he suggested. Before Thursday nothing happened, no arguments, just regular days. I still don't know why he was in a bad mood Thursday btw. I guess I'm just looking for positive advice from women who have experienced this.

**Thank you everyone. I do understand that the way we talk to each other is wrong. I was definitely being childish and acting like a bitch because I was triggered by his accusation. The accusations really get under my skin at this point. But no excuse I could have responded better or ignored it. Thanks I will also work on this on my end.