Who to side w/ Mother or boyfriend ?

My baby shower was this past Saturday. It was beautiful and everything was going perfect. Until later at night. My boyfriend was gonna propose to me! I know exciting right!? He called everyone to the front through the microphone 🎤 everyone came he gave his speech got on one knee and popped the question. I said Yesss Ofc!! Our friends and family congratulated us however I noticed my mother wasn’t in the crowd and did not congratulate me. She was a bit drunk already. Once the crowd cleared first thing she said was that she was mad at my boyfriend because he didn’t include her and she missed the whole thing. He explains to her that he didn’t tell no one and that he wanted everyone to be surprised. He called everyone and everyone came expect her.

She did not congratulate either of us. She talked to his mother a complained that her son did wrong and that she didn’t hear. Things escalated and she ended up arguing and in a fight with his family. There was so many sides to the story that his sister hit my mom first and that my mom hit his sister first. However, we chose to forget about the fight because we didn’t see and we don’t want to choose sides. We feel

Like both individuals are adults and old enough to solve their issues.

My boyfriend told his mom about the proposal. My mother was clueless. But his thing was that he wanted to surprise my family.

Do you feel like she owes him an apology and should congratulate him?

She apologized to me on Wednesday and congratulated me. Explained that she feels like she doesn’t own no one else an apology. My boyfriend feels like she owes him one.