Boyfriend doesn't really want to talk to me

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. I always ran for relationships but was determined to make this one work. Problem number one: He told me I was his girlfriend after the second date. He introduced me to his family on the 3rd. It's not his fault that I than convinced myself that this was what I want.

My apartment went up, and they were double charging me for stuff. They had an excuse for everything. My boyfriend let me move in with him. Problem number two: After I moved in, I felt like a girlfriend being a wife. Working, cooking, and cleaning. My grandfather passed away soon after. I never lost anyone close to me and felt depressed. I slept a lot. He took it as I was taking advantage of him and started to be mean. Throwing away my food. Hitting during s*x and demanding it when I didn't want it. And want me to go to everything family event, that happens every other weekend, just to leave me sitting by myself.

I just been feeling bad. I don't have family and just started to make friends. Problem number three: I can't tell him about anything I'm was stressed out about. He could talk to me, but if I mention the littlest thing, he suggests I should talk to someone about it.

To the post. I told him I needed a break. When I told him about the things he does, he just said, "I see why you think that ". But he truly thinks the problem is only me it seems. He told me I have a month after I told him I needed a break to heal. After that it's good bye. I'm fine with that but I wanted the break to be a time where we could be friends and not expect anything from each other. If we're not talking, we're just pausing only to continue with the same problems