My bf said I hurt his self esteem

So I got into a fight/ argument with my bf and I said how when he yells he hurts my self esteem. He has anger issues and yells sooo much and sometimes says hurtful things.

He says “well what about you? You don’t think you hurt my self esteem?” I was like what the hell?? He said that whenever I send him my gym selfies or selfies in general it hurts his self esteem. He said he knows I do it on purpose to show him I’m TOO GOOD for him. ?????? I felt hurt he’d assume that from me?

I asked him how come he doesn’t say that when I send him nudes. He said that nudes are different cause he knows those are for him ONLY but when I dress “sexy” it hurts his self esteem.

There is no way I want to do this intentional. Is it bad to send your bf pics? He made this argument all about him. The issue was him yelling and he tried to be the victim later I’m so lost I feel terrible