Am I wrong ❓

Me and My fiancé recently found out we are expecting and everyday since (which has only been about 2 weeks) he has compared me to his other bm and her pregnancies (he has 3 kids under the age of 5 and I have one 5 year old ) first it started off as him recommending a obgyn which was cool untill I found out it was his bm obgyn , then he’s like be ready to have candy craving cuz his bm had those all 3 pregnancies (I don’t even like candy ) , Even said “no offense babe but a lot has changed since you were last pregnant”…it was a lot more but I told him last week I didn’t want him to be compared to her nor did I want to hear about her pregnancy and he said sorry and that he’d stop . A couple days ago he said something else and said he couldn’t help it . So today he tells me he wants our baby to start with the letter K becasue his other kids have the letter k which wouldn’t be a problem but his other kids are named after his bm her name starts with a k .I told him no I want to name this one or we agree on something becasue he had plenty chances at naming the others and idc for the trend he has with his other bm he said I was tripping and making a big deal out of nothing .

Yes he’s very excited but what can I do about him comparing me to her ? It’s driving me crazy .

UPDATES/REPLIES:

@realist - respectfully this is MY pregnancy. I dreamed of this day for so long . So I refuse to share my moment being compared to his ex & absolutely will NOT be naming my baby after her . I get things have changed and he’s used to it but I wanna redo all my firsts in this pregnancy. He literally wants to redo this pregnancy like he’s with her …their gender reveals they did popping of the balloon…I want to either do the basketball or the car he’s saying be basic like how they did it…it’s more to it .

@Jennifer - no I’m not but is their story similar to mine if like to read the comments.