Feels wrong

My crush and I have been talking for 4 months. I told him I'm not really for a relationship because I know that's not what I need. I just been going through this emotional rollercoaster. We flirt. He text me daily. Also spent 9 hours on the phone. When I'm with him, I feel good. When we talk on the phone, it feels good. When we text, it doesn't. He'll text me, but I'm the one carrying the conversation. When I tell him bye or good night, he'll respond with a question or send me a video, then the conversation kinda dies, and I'll say bye again because I don't like leaving people on read. Today this happened

I told him I'll talk to him later. Instead of saying bye, ask me do I know Jeremih, a singer. The song that popped up was Don't Tell Em. A song about hooking up and not telling other people. He tried to back track, and I don't know how I feel about it. I like him. I just don't know his intentions which is making it hard.