I am in so much pain emotionally, I can't stop crying 😭

Was told I better go spend time with my boyfriend on the couch and do what a woman is supposed to do ( I'm assuming he's insinuating sex ) Back story, we had an argument, I was in a bedroom with our babies ( twins ) and he spent hours outside in the overnight hours to apparently cool off in the garage, but when he got back in he told me I better get up, stop crying and go spend time with him as a woman should or do I want someone else to do it!!! He also said well then since you don't want to get up and spend time with me, I'll find something else to do and you ain't gonna like it! Mind you this was at 5 am when he came in loudly and woke both babies up, I was the one watching them all night alone he was outside in garage... He's calling me all sorts of names and swearing at me.. Then he's mad I'm crying and having emotions.. he says what's your problem, I told him to leave me alone I didn't feel like talking right now and that I had a right to cry if I wanted to, he said not in my house! We live together but he just added me to his lease and now he's using it against me saying I can't apparently have a room to myself as I'm crying to try to process my emotions because it's his house!! I've been crying for hours now, my eyes are super swollen!! 😭😭😭😭😭 Don't I have a right to cry if I am hurting emotionally?!