Me and husband

I just needed somewhere to vent. I have 6 kids 3 from previous marriage. Me and other half been together 7 years.

We have had our fair share of problems. But now i feel nothing can be done. We cant even sit down and talk about problems as he says shh or tuts. Makes me feel stupid. Then if i try and persist with talking he raises his voice and then insults start. It hurts as ive forgiven him for so much. But yet he criticises me drags up my past before i even met him and calls me names. I feel like no way out. Cant sort this out. Not even sure i want to anymore. And if mention splitting threats start. Yet i dont get why as he is clearly unhappy being with me. Sounds pathetic but times i text him as cant speak to him in person. Tonight he says and dont bother messaging me. Yet few years back whilst i was working hed text me saying going to bed and turned out he was either chatting for hours on phone to female work colleague or messaging

No friends and family support