I am 16 + 4. With my rainbow little boy. Due to my medical history with stillbirth and miscarriages I was referred early on to a specialist. The specialist has been comanaging me with my regular OB. Well now my OB is saying that he cannot deliver me at my regular hospital because there’s no Nicu in case there’s something wrong with my baby boy. They also wanna deliver me early at 37 weeks and there’s also a concern with that as well. There’s no hospitals in my area apparently that can handle this so they want me to deliver at a hospital an hour and a half away. I just heard from the coordinator at that hospital wants to see me for a consultation, no problem. But now they’re saying they have to relocate me over an hour and a half away. I have a nine-year-old daughter in school I have work I have a dog I mean I just feel like I can’t uproot my life just to relocate am I being unreasonable?

EDIT: spoke with my regular ob who says it’s utterly ridiculous so he is referring me somewhere else. Thanks everyone who commented! ❤️