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Just keep your baby and let him decide if he wants to be involved or not.
Found out I’m pregnant
Just venting and hoping for some understanding guidance.
I been hooking up with this guy for a year now and just found out I’m pregnant. I been on birth control but guess this time it didn’t work. We talked about it and agree it’s not ideal to have it since we aren’t together. But I told him after I decided to keep it and he doesn’t need to be involved. Long story short he’s saying I’m doing this out of spite now and probably purposely got pregnant. That I’m doing all this on purpose to him. I want my baby but he’s making it seem like I’m doing all this cause of him and I just can’t grasp why he thinks someone would have a baby out of spite just because I don’t agree with him.
Am I wrong?
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You’ve done your job and told him your choice and now just move on , he has the choice to move on with his life if that’s his choice or be involved so just carry on as if you were doing it alone , you did the right thing by telling him and letting him know though. Now the choice is his as to how he wants to handle that news.
Ni
This!
You don't have to continue the conversation with him. You said you're keeping the baby, so keep the baby, and live your life. If he wants to be involved he can be involved and you can go to court and get a custody and child support agreement. Until then just do your thing, you don't need his approval or to ever speak to him.
Ja
This.
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