I love my husband, but I’m not inlove with him

My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have two children. The thing is, lately I have been falling out of love with my husband. I love him, but I am not inlove with him anymore. It’s so bad that when we have sex, I feel irritated. My husband knows that my love language is act of service, and quality time. He used to cater to my love language before we got married but a year after marriage, everything changed. We hardly spend time together, we don’t go on dates, he is always at work and taking overtime, we don’t do things together. I make efforts to initiate going on dates or just outings as a family but he makes excuses not to go. For example, last week I asked him what day he was off work so that I can plan a family out… he said that he didn’t have any day off. This was a lie because he was off two days after this conversation.

I just don’t know really. Divorce isn’t an option yet because I want to fall inlove with him again for the sake of our children, but he isn’t making this easy for me to make this happen