i just need to know if i’m trippin

so my boyfriend has no fucking job and is staying with me he has no interest in getting a job and he still thinks he can run around with his friends and ask me for money to smoke and do things and etc and when i trip and say he can leave he says i’m tripping and says he’ll change and their is no changed behavior.

tomorrow he says he’s gonna get picked up by his friends because it’s his birthday like am i wrong for going off on him!?! i work my ass off and pay all these bills by myself and he thinks he’s gonna keep doing what he wants and leaving

he has never taken me on a date, doesn’t do thoughtful things for me like my feelings are hurt… he is so quick to jump for his friends