First let me start off by saying I love the fact I am having my second child. But I mourn the man I use to be with 🥹 I had my first child 5 yrs ago not by my current bf. I meet my boyfriend when my son was 3. We had fun going out , enjoyed each other and did family activities all the time. We moved in together nothing changed still enjoyed it so much and we enjoyed each other. We both would be spontaneous, he would plan dates, run my feet, just love on me and I would do the same to him. we planned a pregnancy and I got pregnant and it’s like he completely changed not by being mean or cheating or anything. He literally goes to work and back but literally that’s it. But he doesn’t do the things he used to do at all. I’m finally in my last month of pregnancy but I’m worried our relationship will go down if we don’t address therapy. I tried talking to him about these things but we don’t see it the same. He thinks nothing is wrong at all. I don’t feel connected to him anymore. He doesn’t even do the same things for himself. He used to keep up with himself so nicely and now he doesn’t, not even alil bit. As much as I love him it makes me cringe. I’m talking about like guys he won’t brush his teeth sometimes and I DONT KNOW why he let himself go. Tried asking if he was depressed he said no. We dated for awhile before moving in then we dated for awhile before planning a pregnancy. We talk about marriage all the time. But now it has me thinking I’ll like to go to couple therapy before that. Like I said we’re not cheating on each other. I’m not sure why we disconnected ourself from each other.