And you can't get rid of them?

There's this relative staying in the house and I can't kick them out that's not an option but it's a woman and she has this jealousy resentment towards me she's bitter angry I'm welcoming I treat her right but she's passive aggressive has attitude and actually walks around like this is her house.

I'm so upset I don't know what to do with this person I told her that she's disrespectful and she told me that I'm disrespectful but in front of the children she's ignoring me walking around the house like she's lived here when she's only been here three months!

I'm asking you guys because honestly in my personality my character I'm not mean to anyone and I'd like to hear from women who are assertive how can I have a conversation with this person how do I eloquently tell her to respect me.

How do I navigate this conversation I don't know why she's acting like this she's 55 years old she's spouse relative staying here it's my husband house she told me you can't kick me out this is your husband's house when you own your house you can tell me to leave and this is the type of disrespect I hear

The reason we can't kick her out is because she has no where else to go and no other relatives support this behavior and we are trying to do the right thing we found her a job letting her save up to move out but I'd like to know how do I talk to her about her attitude towards me.