told my bf about how I don't want to live. now my friends are all of a sudden checking up on me. is this coincidence?

I was going through a rough patch in general: my health is not doing so well, I have work, church, serving at church, additional church events, family events, friends, and my bf's family family events. my doctor found a lung nodule in my lung that is decently sized enough to cause difficulty breathing. I am in the process of trying to switch my health insurance bc the doctors seem to not be doing much. I am was so overwhelmed. it got overwhelmed to a point that I got into an argument with my bf over something small, and my bf has trouble communicating his feelings so I guess he blew up on me bc he kept silent about something that was bothering him for a while. I thought we were going to break up but we sorted things out.

before I went to bed, I texted him that I was burnt out:

after, I deactivated my instagram and social media to take care of my mental health. ever since my friends have been asking to hang out or random texts saying "how are you."

is this coincidence?

why wouldn't my own bf check in on me?

pls be nice, I am still going thru it