My parents need to evict their deadbeat son

This is gonna be a long one. My brother is in his mid 30’s still living under my parents roof with absolutely no plan in leaving any time soon. He has 3 kids which he rarely sees and when he does have them, he leaves them with my parents so he can go out with friends. My mom cooks for him, if he asks her to do his laundry or his kid’s laundry, she’ll do it with no hesitation. He talks shit about his kid’s mother and my mom chimes in and eggs him on. Like ma’am, your son is in his 30’s smoking all day and complaining that he doesn’t see his kids but doesn’t spend time with them when they’re here AND YOU’RE ENABLING IT!! My husband and I had to move in a month ago but we’re doing EVERYTHING possible to find a home of our own. This man has no plans and he has a good paying job so he can afford a 1bd apartment. He complained about not having money because child support takes away too much yet goes out and buys designer clothes and shoes. He’s always buying new Jordan’s or Nikes. True religion pants and shirts. WEED DAMNEAR EVERY WEEK. And then has the audacity to say he doesn’t always have money for rent 😂 like yeah because you spend it all on yourself. He constantly accuses my mom and I of taking sides with his ex (Ngl I do because I was closer to her growing up than I was to him and she’s now my best friend/sister) but my mom hates choosing sides and talks shit regardless of who it is lol but he’ll call her and talk shit and tell her she doesn’t love him and all this bs. I’ve never heard him have a civil conversation with his ex. We always hear him yelling calling her names and being super disrespectful to her even when the kids are here!! He’ll even guilt trip them or make them feel bad for him so they choose him over their mother. He told his daughter she needs to cancel her birthday party because weekends are his… sir you just had them last weekend. My mom and I took her out for 3hrs and we’re done by 5. I let him know 2 months in advance so he can plan a dinner or a cake for her once we’d get home. He instead went to a friend’s baby shower and then went out with friends. Sunday came, he was hungover and didn’t get up till like 12pm. Then that afternoon he argued with the kid’s mother and was yelling so loud that my cousin who was in the kitchen cooking could hear everything. The kids tried to come out to the living room to try to distract themselves from his yelling. Because he flunked school and got expelled, he thinks it’s okay for his oldest to do the same. Tells his ex (who’s desperately trying to figure out how to straighten him out) that he can’t force him to do something he doesn’t want to do. WHAT?!?! Yeah let’s just give up on the kid ?? And my parents put the blame on his ex because she has the kids most of the time. As if their toxic man child doesn’t have any responsibility 🥴 they even believe that it’s not fair he’s paying child support because he doesn’t have them. Like…. That’s why… he’s paying child support….. ?? What’s unfair ? I just wish they would stop enabling him as well as let him take advantage of them. My mom told him she doesn’t want him to smoke in the house but we still hear him ripping his bong every night in his room. Thankfully I believe he’s put something under his door so the smell doesn’t escape anymore but the bathroom and hallway used to reek. I don’t care for weed but I sure as hell don’t want my 2yo smelling it. I can’t wait to find a place with my little finally and be away from his drama.

@Maria she does. She’s a nurturer. But she also believes that if she doesn’t support him or me that we’ll put them in a nursing home or won’t help them in their old age. That’s just allowed my brother to take advantage of my parents and it’s so sad because I can tell they’re done with his shit.

@Ik I know I don’t have a say, I just hate that my parents allow him to take advantage of them while also enabling his toxic behavior towards women and his kids.