Ok for him not for me tho

Hubby last year was going to all these women's pages and watching them do half naked dances but the way he started doing this around the time I had just had c section

But noticed when we would go out he would be a 100% checking out other women so he has this argument locked and loaded of looking not cheating I ain't touching no one

Now he is pitching a fit because my sisters Bachelorette party is at a strip club and he says I can't go because I would definitely be cheating on him to step foot in a place where naked men could be (I wasn't planning on going but now I kinda want to prove a point)

He if I go I am heartless but he's the one looking at everyone not me I don't understand