before i got pregnant i had THE name for a girl picked out. had it picked since i was 13 but i never found a name i liked for a boy. when i found out i was pregnant my partner knew we were having a boy. i wasn’t sure but started searching for a name that spoke to me just in case. in my partner’s family the first born son of the first born son has the initials RJL and i wanted to keep that going. finding R and J names that haven’t been over used was nearly impossible but i found a few that i liked. when we found out we were for sure having a boy none of those names “fit” so my search continued. i came across both of his names on a “girl name” list but im a firm believer in names can be used however you want. im so grateful i found that list because in it i found my reverie jru <3