For a bit of context before my soon to be husband and father of my little one is a wildland fire fighter, assistant county fire warden, and a structural fire fighter. We’ve known each other for 10 years and I knew from the start this was his dream. Sorry for the rant I’m just at a loss and want to cry.

So I’ve been so overstimulated lately it’s been sending me into anxiety attacks or causing me to be short with people. I went to the drs today just to say hey this is what’s going on what can be done other than meds right now (I know a lot of it is this time of the year) and the PA I saw said therapy. Okay no big deal I can do that. I had on one of fiancé’s sweatshirts, she seen because it was one of his wildland ones and made the comment about me being a single mom six months out of the year. That isn’t the case and this isn’t the first time someone in that office has made that comment (my current OB made the same comment the first time I seen him. I found a new one because he’s leaving on the first so now I have the head of the department.) I told my fiancé the first time it happened and it pissed him off and he let it go, I just told him again and he was with his boss (who I like and heard what I said) they are both pissed. This is the only place in town I can go to for drs and OB care. I want to call and complain but I feel like it would be my word against hers, I don’t want to cause any issues either with it being the only place. My OB told me at my last appt to keep pushing fluids because I ended up in the hospital for dehydration and food poisoning, well this PA today told me not to push that much water and stop drinking anything an hour and a half before bed so I’m not up all night using the bathroom. I get up a few times a night and it’s mainly when she’s on my bladder kicking. Who do I go with? The OB or PA?