I think you should test the waters first. Bringing someone into the bedroom can really ruin a marriage, I've heard of so many girls who've regretted it.If you really do want to test it out, I would suggest you take him to a strip club. Tell him it's his night and you'll buy him lap dances from the girls he finds most attractive. Tell him it's ok if he makes out with one of them and then really feel your feelings. If you have a ping of jealousy and insecurity you probably won't stomach seeing him with anyone else. Also check yourself the days after, if you find yourself asking "Is she prettier than me? Is she hotter? Do you still think about her?" Then that's a big, fat NO to a threesome.

I just hope women who have been through it answer you. These posts usually get so many comments from women who went through with it and regretted it because it made the relationship worse in more than 1 way

I worked in a strip club for many years years many couples find women there though I don't recommend it. First my advice is to find the words to talk about having a third party to give him more ( specifically how you d picture it being good for him.) Also in my experience women gove alot better than men so don't leave yourself out. Get someone that you rencomforatable w and get yours! I'm in my Kate forties amd my advice co.es from experoe for over 10 yrs. I never liked certain positions so if I wantedbto gove that to my man I d say that but if it was that we just want more hands n mouths say that. Trust you will habe a more relaxed time if you include yourself n he will too. My current spouse doesn't want another party bc he is convinced I ll wind up having her in some way. He just doesn't realize that's never gonna happen...long as you trust him you re good.

I enjoy having threesomes. You have to be confident and love yourself. I have invited a few friends of mine and had no issues. Everything stayed in the bedroom and that was that. I had another friend who kept crossing boundaries. I actually moved her in and thought this would be nice having a gf around. She kept trying to be better than me. Would completely take over the house? Was checking up on him asking how he was? Giving him compliments? This is where I’m like no! We can have fun in the bedroom but not beyond that. He is still my man. I had to kick her out. There are rules with me. I’ll share my man to an extent. Only bedroom! My man has always been respectful and told me she was out of line. So be careful it’s not always peaches n cream 💛

i wouldn’t do this with someone i love let alone am married to. i did this with my ex who i was with for YEARS. he had cheated, i had cheated and bam “why not have a 3some” LMAO. she was better doing her thing with me than he was …and it only happened once. it turned me on in the moment but later on down the line i couldn’t stop picturing him in another woman. here’s the kicker - her bf was about to come join us and he was like “no we have to go” 😂😂😂just be careful. if you’re not the type to care and hold on to the images and it’s actually a turn on for you then go for it because the pleasure was amazing! just not afterwards. if i was single and joining a party i’d do it again.