Am I an abuser for hitting and kicking my husband once because I was enraged at his betrayal of my trust?

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Roles reversed, he would be arrested for domestic abuse because you would have called the police... rightfully so. It's not any different just because woman hits man. Abuse is abuse, field your anger in a different way.

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Yes you did abuse him, I wouldn’t necessarily call you an abuser. To me an abuser is someone with a history of consistent abuse. You saw red and behaved violently. I’m sure I’ll be disagreed with but to me they are not the same.

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You assaulted him for sure.. abuser implies a pattern of behaviour..

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Oh so it’s okay if he hits and kicks you, as long as he does it because he feels you betrayed his trust. You’re ridiculous and a hypocrite.

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Come on now why you even need to ask this of course you are your abusive and how is it fair you get to scratch, punch, kick, spit, throw objects at your husband or spouse or any man let alone..You should not be hitting a man because if he hit your ass back and hurt your ass you’d be crying and calling the police and everyone would be thinking he is the abusive when the aggressor is you… just be honest with yourself if you cant control your hands and behavior then you don’t need to be in a relationship that’s how you get hurt do better and leave that type of toxicity alone…

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Would he be an abuser if he done this too you, yes.

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There’s other ways to express anger and feeling betrayed other than getting physical or hitting/kicking him.

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Yea, NOBODY should be putting their hands or feet on anyone period...like how did you people get through kindergarten...keep your hands & feet to yourself. Also if I were you I'd remember 2 wrongs don't make a right...

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💯. Roles reverse you’d be talking about being abused. There’s other ways to express yourself. 
Are you the one posting about throwing cans at someone and waking them up to argue

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You did in fact abuse him physically.

Am I an abuser for hitting and kicking my husband once because I was enraged at his betrayal of my trust?

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