We are not allowed to see my nieces because we where supposedly disrespectful but in reality she’s the one that came to my mothers home fighting with my brother, then started yelling at my other brother because he was in the near by hang out room next door and telling him to get the fuck out cause they are arguing. My mom told her to leave the house that she will not tolerate that and she yelled at my mom then tell your son to act right yelling it was a mess, I did punch her because yea no you will not disrespect my mother in her own home. That was before she had my nieces and I never got to meet them they are 5 almost 6 and 3 turning 4. Years later she still on that and loves to trash us online but doesn’t say how my mother is constantly buying them stuff like clothes shoes and underwear just basic needs because they tend to struggle at times. She fails to mention how despite we can’t see them we send them Christmas and birthday gifts with cards, pretty sure she takes cards out and doesn’t tell them.

People are quick to blame in laws and defend the mother without knowing the whole truth. It’s just annoying because I would love to be in their life’s and because a fight she started over 6 years ago we still can’t. I ask my brother about them I see pictures but even he’s restricted on how much he can show us because she threatens him by saying she’s taking them and putting him on child support if he does.

Just a few months ago she took my mothers number from his phone and texted her when mad at him how she needed to be a better mother that he’s a failure and it’s her fault. Mind you my mother is grieving my dead brother who was murder a year ago , she’s still struggling with his death, he was truly a mamas boy always behind her even after moving and having his own kids he was always behind her.

She loves to claim how great she is but doesn’t openly tell everyone how she barely has them how her mother is always caring for the girls. Just so over it and even over my brother for letting it happen.

Worst part of it all her brother who molested her as a child has went to the home and meet them but we couldn’t ! Like make that make sense putting kids in jeopardy, her response I’m not leaving them alone with him and I forgave him 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️.