So since I was younger I wanted two kids (boy and girl).Didn’t want big family (not judging those who have it kudos to you honestly-but not something I wanted).

And I’m blessed with two boys and wouldn’t change anything .They are two and half and one year old.

Now my husband have older brother younger sister and he would like more kids but I’m done and he knows it.

I don’t want to be sahm forever.

Now problem is my in laws and other people basically

With questions “see how cute your kids are it’s shame not to have another one”

“See how gentle they are and happy with their baby niece it’s shame not to give them a baby sister”

Like that is something I have control over and my husband is like well if I knew it’s girl I would try

Like dude no I’m the one who carries baby not you

I know he wants that daddy daughter bond he loves our boys unconditionally but I feel that is missing to him

So if someone ask will we try for another one I just say I would rather take out all my reproductive system instead of giving birth

I’m just done with pregnancy and everything that comes with it