My bf and I have been together 4 almost 5 years have a 2 year old. I got pregnant again earlier this year by surprise (not planned) and I was happy, he seemed happy too. But I had a miscarriage. I took it very hard I cried for weeks and still cry to this day about it but he almost seemed unbothered in a way. I didn’t expect him to be tore up about it like I was since he’s a guy and I miscarried kinda early. But I keep hinting and trying to bring up the conversation that I want another baby and he almost always shuts it down immediately by making comments like “no I’m not having anymore kids with you” “you can get pregnant again but it won’t be by me” just stuff that hurts my feelings and confuses me because I thought we were happy about the baby we lost? We also love our 2 year old to death but idk it just makes me upset when he says stuff like that because I know for a fact I want more children and honestly would like to start trying to get pregnant again soon but am starting to think we are on different pages.. what should I do? I don’t want my kids having big age gaps but don’t think he’s gonna want another baby any time soon..