I’m so overwhelmed

sherry

My almost 2 year old has been acting well like a 2 year old and on top of that she bites and throws her head back when it’s nap time and screams and cry’s for 2 hours. She’s currently doing it now and my husband works nights so he is asleep in our room but I don’t want him to wake up because we had planned on going to his grandmas today and I really just don’t feel up to it but I can’t tell him that because we are already having marriage problems and it’ll just make him more upset with me. I really don’t want to go over to his grandmas with my tired child and my overwhelmed self. I’m so overwhelmed with my child acting out because she’s tired and mad and my husband who isn’t happy with me. What do I say to him? Do I just suck it up and go? I’m about to have a mental breakdown