Being confident making the first move

Kasey

I’m after some advice with my relationship. It’s a long distance relationship what was a year of talking and a month of date. Still together now. All my past relationships have never been good and I have never felt love before only been used. With my current boyfriend I would like to make the first move with being sexual however I have no clue how to start. And when I get a small amount of flirting or affection I get confused and scared. I want to be able to express my love with affection but also want to add a bit of sexuality in to it as well. What would people recommend on how to confidently start sex off and what advice would you give.

This will not be the first time me and him have had sex but I just want to be able to confidently start off and not being nervous or scared of doing something wrong.