Loss of sex drive

Rachel

I used to be very excited and enthusiastic about sex. Now I’d just rather sleep and not make the effort. Diet and weight are not an issue and I’m almost 40! I thought my 30’s were supposed to be the height of my drive. If I have a sexy dream that works and really random days but otherwise I just feel it’s more effort than it’s worth. Has anyone tried that sex drive medication? Did that work?