So I recently found out I am pregnant. This will be #4 for me so mama’s with multiples know I can’t hide it for long. Over the weekend we told my In-laws as this is our first together and SO’s has a big family (total of 8 siblings). My previous 3 are from a previous marriage. My SO has 1 from a previous marriage that isn’t biologically his but he was there since birth and they were never able to have one together. That being said, everyone assumed SO was the one unable to have kids even though he never seen a doctor to even know. I recently went off birth control because we wanted to at least try and if nothing happened then we could get doctors involved. Omg 😳 the response from my BIL’s wife, one of my SIL’s and one of my BIL’s was very upsetting. They all were pretty much questioning how I knew I was pregnant, how it was possible and if SO was even the father. Like wow, way to show me what you really think about me. I have never had an affair and never will so why they even had a thought that SO wasn’t the father I don’t even know why? They all know he was never medically diagnosed with infertility by a doctor. His ex just told everyone he couldn’t have kids because she couldn’t get pregnant again. As for how do I know I’m pregnant, the BIL’s wife asked very rudely how I knew or if I went to a doctor. She’s had 3 kids so I was sitting there like hello I peed on 6 at home tests and all 6 are positive. I don’t know what you did when you first found out you were pregnant 3 times but that’s kind of how majority of us find out. You can watch me pee on another one if you don’t believe me. My MIL is beyond excited. She’s been begging for us to have a baby for years lol and now that she’s fighting breast cancer this gives her an extra reason to keep up the fight. Anyway, I went home and just cried on and off the rest of the night. I’ve just been depressed the rest of the weekend too. I told my SO that I’m probably going to be upset about this the rest of my life because WTF?? I’m pretty much being accused of cheating or like I did something wrong when I haven’t nor would I. We have a very happy healthy relationship so again where that even came from I will never know. SO said he talked to them but still, it’s upsetting to know that’s how they feel about me after all these year’s. I thought they would all be excited because we’re actually having a baby but I thought wrong I guess. I said if there’s ever another after this, I’m not telling them anything until I give birth. Like I don’t even want to share the rest of my pregnancy with them.