So we just got engaged about 2 weeks ago, and have a baby coming at the end of this week. I am beyond happy and life seems like it cant get any better, but today I learned a sad truth, that my sister (my only family) doesn’t like my now fiancé. Im so annoyed because i love this man with all my heart and she is my only family, obviously I’d want her to like him. She literally has no reason to not like him, but I suppose she compares everyone to her boyfriend. My love isn’t the brightest when it comes to women stuff, but he absolutely adores me and would do anything to make me happy, i just have to tell him. But she faults him because he cant think on his own without being told, she makes the remarks “my boyfriend would never do this or that” which I’m completely fine with. This all started at my babyshower, because he wasn’t helping enough or present enough, his family was in town so he was hosting, while i was at the venue setting up. She got upset saying its messed up that he’s not here helping( im OCD, id rather do everything myself to make sure its perfect), then it was at the actual shower of he should be handing you the gifts why isn’t he being involved. I said well if your standing here handing me them why would he. Keep in mind he grew up thinking babyshowers are just for girls( which they were once upon a time), he had no clue what he was doing, id have to tell him what i needed him to do. Then she was complaining about his entire family because they didn’t help clean up enough, and at this point i was just over it. She gave me immense anxiety and just kinda ruined my shower for me( which she hosted). Now i call her today telling her that i might be induced for labor this week, and it’s before the date she’d make it, and she made the sly remark of “are you going to be ok with just him in the room” i said “of course, why wouldn’t i be” and she remarked “ just making sure because based on everything I’ve seen i don’t trust him to be there for you, Or basically be a good father” i said what and where is this coming from. She’s literally hung out with us twice this year( we live in different states) im like you cant keep holding this babyshower thing over his head, it was one event get over it. Now she claims its been multiple occasions (i dont know how) im just so over it and don’t know how to feel. I asked her from now on to keep her opinions to herself (because honestly theres things i could say about her boyfriend and never have) which she didn’t seem to like, apparently she just wants the best for me. But now i dont know how to feel because she’s suppose to fly here the following week with her boyfriend as support, to help out and shes been so excited because it’s literally just been us for all these years, but i don’t like how she “feels” about my fiancé. I almost don’t even want her to come anymore, so idk what to do.