I’m a mom of four girls and just got married last month. We’ve been together 8.5 years. My oldest is 11 and youngest 20 months. We consider ourselves very nice people and my husband is someone who helps anybody and everybody when they need it. We’re a one income family because I’m a sahm and he’s owned his own construction business for 18 years. We have double the bills than a a normal person because of business expenses and are still able to do this that and the other thing. My kids have everything they want and more. My husband lost his brother in 2017. His grandmother in 2019. We lost my grandmother last November. And unexpectedly my husbands father last month on our daughters 4th birthday. Got married October 16 and that same day his 90 year old grandfather fell and broke his hip. His grandfather just passed away last night. To say these last five years has been a heartache would be an understatement. We’ve had my ex husband and his family harass us year after year (my 11 year old is not my husbands daughter). My ex husband hasn’t seen my daughter in almost 4 years. We can’t stand my ex because he’s a low life scumbag that only cares about getting 🐱. Doesn’t pay child support. Not that I care because we don’t need it. But it just infuriates me that we are such kind people. And we just keep losing people left and right. Like why us? And then there’s the dirtbags like my ex and his family living life with no issues. We keep saying karma karma karma. And it just keeps coming back to bite us in the ass. 😞

Edit to add: we mind our business and don’t ever respond to being harassed by them unless they get in our faces. Which they have before. We don’t reach out to ANYONE because we don’t give a shit. So to the one who said to move on from my ex. I did that EIGHT years ago! Thanks